Thats how a church should be Rick in my opinion. I belong to a small church, less than a 100 at times, most of the time. I would suspect that the Pastor would not worry himself about what someone is wearing but assuming that would be wrong. I went to church last weekend and not a word of the situation was mentioned by anyone. I have forgiven him as I think I am supposed to do and he will now have to stand before our Lord and give an account for his reasoning as to why he did what he did.