Take Care How You Pray for the Lord May Say OK
SCRIPTURES
Psalm 103:13
Psalm 12-15
Proverbs 1:8-9, 25-26
Proverbs 3:11-12
Proverbs 10:8
Proverbs 14:12
Isaiah 48:17
I Samuel 8 (Israel begs God for a king)
Luke 15:11-24 (story of the prodigal son)
Matthew 7:7
I Thessalonians 2:11
When I was a little girl growing up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, my father got one week of vacation per year. One summer we would spend our vacation at the beach in Ocean City, Maryland. The opposite summer we would make the trip out to southern Iowa to visit both sets of grandparents. The summer I was eight and my sister, Diana, six, was an Iowa year. There were no interstate highways then, but Pennsylvania, Ohio, and Indiana had turnpikes (toll roads) which routed us right into downtown Chicago. There were no freeways through the city either. Inching our way through downtown traffic in 90 degree heat seemed to take forever. West of Chicago, it was nothing but farmland. Hundreds of miles through flat corn country in a non-air-conditioned car was never something we looked forward to either.
However, there was one wonderful, special treat that made it all worthwhile. Howard Johnsons! We stopped only for gas and toilet because Dad refused to pay the high prices at the rest plaza restaurants. Mom packed us a picnic lunch. But at sunset, somewhere just before Chicago, we knew that we would stop for the night at a Howard Johnsons motel. All year long we looked forward to staying in a motel. Howard Johnsons had a pool. Howard Johnsons had 20 flavors of ice cream. At Howard Johnsons, we could sleep together in a double bed and they had a machine that made as many ice cubes as you wanted! Nine hours in the back seat of our `57, green Pontiac was bearable only because Howard Johnsons sat waiting for us at sunset.
Although we never ate at the rest plazas, we still went inside to use the bathrooms and soak up the air-conditioning. And there was always a gift shop! Souvenirs from whatever state we were in, toys and dolls, and candy of all varieties sat behind the glass. One candy in particular called our names - the giant sucker. The giant sucker was a rainbow- colored

lipop twelve inches in diameter! It was the biggest, most colorful, most delicious candy ever invented by man. We were sure of it. Of course we’d never had one, but someday we believed our father might get so lightheaded from the heat or maybe have such a big paycheck that month that he would forget what he always said, "These places are ridiculous. Look at those prices. It’s highway robbery...that’s what it is". Instead, one day, maybe he might say, "Well, girls, I think it’s about time you had one of those giant suckers. After all, we’re on vacation." Our perseverance was impressive, and rightly so, because on that July trip to Iowa, it was about to pay off.
Standing with our noses pressed up against the gift shop window, we spotted those giant suckers. "He’ll never say yes," I sighed.
"Let’s ask him anyway," my sister said. "He might this time."
We crossed our fingers as Dad came out of the restrooms and saw us staring into the gift shop. "Forget it, girls. How many times have I told you? I’m not going to waste good money on souvenirs."
"Please, Dad. We just want one of those giant suckers, that’s all," I begged.
As I pointed to the big suckers, it happened, the miracle we’d been waiting for.
Dad looked at Mom, who shrugged her shoulders and said, "You can’t possibly finish that huge sucker!".
"Yes we can. Yes we can. We promise." we chattered.
Then Dad said, "OK . Stop the begging. I ‘ve given this some thought. Your mother is right and it’s against my better judgment, but I will buy you each one of those suckers. HOWEVER. Once you’ve opened the wrapper, you have to finish it. I won’t have sticky sugar on the seats of the car."
We couldn’t believe our ears! In minutes we were back in the car, our eyes dancing with the colors of the suckers spiraling around - red, blue, yellow, green, orange and purple. Each sucker was the size of a dinner plate and almost as heavy. As we pulled back onto the turnpike, off came the wrappers and we slurped with abandon.
Remember now, it was about two o’clock in the afternoon and the temperature was hovering around 95 degrees. To keep it cooler, all four car windows were rolled down as we sped along at 65 mph. The sun beat down. My sucker began to drip. I licked the drip but it dripped faster. I licked as fast as I could, but it dripped faster. Diana was having a worse problem. Her curly hair was not pulled back in braids like mine, so as it whipped around in the wind, it began to stick to her sucker! She tried to loosen her hair from the sucker, but then her hands stuck. There was no place to lay our suckers down. They were getting stickier, heavier and drippier by the minute. We dared not get the seats sticky. Suddenly I had a brilliant idea. I held my sucker out the window so it would drip outside instead of on the back seat, but when Diana tried to copy me, she had too much hair stuck to her sucker for her to rip it away. By the time we got to the toll booth at the Indiana state line, we were getting desperate. I pulled my sucker back inside only to discover that most of the bugs in western Ohio were stuck to it. Tears welled up and ran down my sticky cheeks. Diana’s hair was clumped in a gooey mess all over her sucker, the melted syrup running down her arms. She too began to cry.
"What’s the matter back there?" Dad asked (as if he didn’t know!). Mom dared not look at us for fear she would burst out laughing.
"Daddeeeee! Stop the car. Our suckers are stuck!"
"But, I thought you could eat the whole thing. That’s what you said back at the gift shop–you said you could eat the whole thing."
"No, Dad. It’s too hot and windy back here. We can’t eat the sucker. Pleasssse stop, Daddeee."
"Alright," he said. "We’ll stop at the next rest area."
Dad pulled in to the next wayside and stopped the car. He and Mom turned around in their seats and looked at us. We must have looked pretty pathetic, because they didn’t scold or even say "I-told-you-so." I guess Dad’s lesson for the day had run its course. He shook his head as he opened the back door. "Come on. Let’s throw that thing in the trash.
Go with your mother and get washed up."
It nearly broke my heart to throw that sucker away. Mom said she thought she would have to cut Diana’s hair to detach her from her sucker, but after holding Diana’s head under the ice cold water from the pump, most of the hair let go. Diana sobbed as Mom dropped her giant sucker with its crew cut into the trash.
Diana and I were exhausted. We sat still for the next several hours, worried sick that as our punishment, we wouldn’t get to stay at Howard Johnsons. But around about sunset, we pulled into the Howard Johnsons parking lot in Hammond, Indiana after all. Dad went into the office to check us in. He came out chuckling. "What’s so funny, Dad?"
"Well, it seems I’m not the only father to teach his children a lesson today. The family just ahead of us didn’t have a reservation so they’ll have to drive on. In the office they have those giant suckers for sale. Can you believe it? The Dad bought his kids some to keep them happy for the remaining drive!"
"You didn’t warn him?"Mom asked. Dad shook his head, his body shaking with laughter. Now Mom couldn’t hold it any longer. She laughed and laughed. "You girls looked so funny!"
"I will never eat another sucker as long as I live," I said, "but could I have an ice cream cone? They have 20 flavors."
"Oh yes, Daddy. Can I have a double scooper?" Diana said.
Dad looked at Mom and threw up his hands. "Kids! They never learn."
That object lesson my father cooked up occurred over 45 years ago, but I still remember it very clearly. They still sell those giant suckers at the rest plazas on the turnpike too! My earthly father had the wisdom to allow his daughters to learn from their foolishness by giving us what we pestered him for. How many times do we pray to our heavenly father for something that He knows is not in our best interest? He gives us His advice, but we still keep asking. Has God ever let you go ahead and receive the answer to your foolish prayer, knowing that the whole thing would end in nothing but trouble? What does it take for us to learn to accept God’s ways over our own?
My parents also had compassion that day. They were prepared to be merciful when we had to humble ourselves and face the mess we’d made. They helped us clean up our "sticky situation" and allowed us to still have the reward of Howard Johnsons despite the trouble we’d caused.
Our compassionate heavenly Father is like that only wiser still. If we repent and ask His forgiveness for the mess we have made (messes that are a whole lot stickier than a giant sucker), He too will help us clean up no matter how painful a process that might be. And God continues to bless us, to let us enjoy the Howard Johnsons in our lives - even after we’ve sinned. Hopefully all of us will learn our lesson the first time, but too often we turn right around and ask for double scoopers of the same temptation we just recovered from. God knows we are dust. He is patient and longsuffering and is prepared with as many lessons as we need to learn as we move closer to Christ-likeness.
PRAYER - Abba Father, thank you for rescuing us from our own foolish mistakes. Thank you for helping us set things right again and for not giving us what we deserve. Help us to seek your wisdom and accept your advice in our daily decisions. Please give those of us who are parents your wisdom and patience as we guide our children through life. Amen